
I am exhausted physically and emotionally. lots going on within the family &
ALL is beyond my
control. and as an eight (the challenger) on the
enneagram (an ancient method of discovering your giftedness and your brokenness) i'm all about being in
CONTROL!!!.....this poem from "
The Labyrinth and the Enneagram" says it best regarding the way i tend to perceive life -
"It's not right," I rage, "Not fair!"
The familiar words leap from my belly,
my passion for justice roused up.
One more time I charge ahead,
confronting what needs changing
or extending protection
to someone oppressed.
Why is it then when the truth,
which is so obvious,
calls for strength and action,
I look around
and find myself alone!"
"Enneagram type 8 is characterized by being strong-willed, self-confident, and confrontational. Feeling strong, secure, and courageous is important. Energy is directed to fighting back to resist being controlled by others and to right injustice. Validation comes from being powerful, in control, and through effecting change in the world. When so much energy is focused on confronting the world, the truths about oneself, vulnerability, and emotional connection with others will be elusive." The Labyrinth & the Enneagram, by Jill Geoffrion & Elizabeth Nagel, p. 90Any other 8's out there?
To get an idea of what # on the Enneagram you might be, determine where you would be sitting at the dinner party.