"When we spend a lifetime trying to distance ourselves
from the parts of our lives that don't fit
with who we think we're supposed to be,
we stand outside of our story and
hustle for our worthiness by constantly
performing, perfecting, pleasing and proving.
Our sense of worthiness - that critically important piece
that gives us access to love and belonging -
lives inside of our story."
-Brene Brown, The Gifts of Imperfection, p. 23
Connie Sun comic from here